"when God closes a door, he opens windows"
One of the hardest thing to do in this life, is to let go of a broken relationship. Facing the reality that the relationship does not exist anymore is like a nightmare. Letting go of a relationship is not like turning off a light switch - because the hurt and pain can not disappear in just an instant. But whatever happens, one must move on. In order to live again, one must release the person and not be obsessed about him or her. How?
1. by SURRENDERING to God completely moment-by-moment and day-to-day especially during the hard time. Be assured that once you surrender to him all your cares, you will be taken cared of even in the midst of your sorrow.
2. FORGIVE so you can be free. As one writer said: when you love someone, set him free.when he comes back, he is yours forever, if he does not, he was never meant to be yours.
3. FOCUS on yourself and your own life so you can move on. If you look back, it will cause delay and make your journey in life unpleasant.
Be aware, there is no such thing as a broken heart, only a heart that is openning wider. A heart that remains open heals faster.
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