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Thursday, August 6, 2009

KINDS OF PEOPLE YOU MUST BEWARE


MANIPULATIVE.
These individuals are experts with manipulation tactics. They figure out what your buttons are and push them to get what they want.

NARCISSISTIC.
These people have an extreme sense of self-importance and believe that the world revolves around them. You often want to say to them "it is'nt always about you."

DOWNER.
These people can't appreciate the positive in life. If you tell them it's a beautiful day, they will tell you about the impending dreary forecast. They take the joy of everything.

JUDGEMENTAL.
When you see things as cute and quirky, they see things as strange and unattractive. If you find people's unique perspectives refreshing, they find them wrong.

DREAM KILLERS.
Every time you have an idea, these people tell you why you can't do it. As you achieve, they try to pull you down. As you dream, they are the first to tell you it is impossible.

INSINCERE.
You never quiet feel that these people are being sincere. You tell a funny story, they give you a polite laugh. You feel depressed and sad and they give you a "there,there" response. This breeds shallow, meningless relationships. When you are reall in need of a friend, they won't be there. When you really need constructive criticism, they would rather tell you that you are great the way you are. When you need support, they would rather see you fail or make a fool of yourself.

DISRESPECTFUL.
These people will do or say things at the most inappropriate times and in the most inappropriate ways. In the corporate world, it's the collegue who says demeaning things to you. These people have no sense of bondaries and don't respect your feelings or for that matter your privacy.

NEVER ENOUGH.
You can never give enough to these people to make them happy. They take you for granted and have unrealistic expectations of you. They find ways to continually fault you and never take responsibility for anything themselves.

BE aware, Blumentahal said:" life is too short to spend your time dealing with these people. Start with your own outlook in life. We can change our personality. Evaluate your life and realize that worrying can't solve anything but by having a happy personality and a positive attitude, you can always get things done.

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