No matter how we are abused, or be a victim of any traumatic circumstances, our self-respect can not be taken away from us, - unless we allow it. Self-pity is indeed destructive and makes the person paralized to the point that he/she losses enthusiasm to achieve any goal in life. Suggestions on how we can stay out of it:
SELF-LOVE.
It is healing if it is translated into positive and productive action. React constructively at criticism.
Better still, NIP IT IN THE BUD.
Once you are aware of the downtrend that you are beginning to fall into, watch how you react to criticism. When you begin to feel sad at the slightest pretext, it's time you do some serious introspection on your reaction.
BE aware, self-pity its the worst enemy, and if you yeild to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.
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